Since known the time in history of humanity, thousands of poets, painters, singers, writers, musicians, craftsmen
and sculpturers have been portraying, praising and worshiping the
vibrant image of woman and her fertility, elegance, liveliness, charisma
and splendor by employing intellect, creativity, imaginations and
emotions at their best. Folklore, legends, creation myths and cultures
are meaningless and incomplete without her. Kings and emperors have
fought wars over her physical beauty and lost their women, lives,
kingdoms and empires.
Her unique characteristics, skills and qualities separate her from men. Beauty, cuteness, resilience, resourcefulness, adaptability and naturality can be easily equated to a woman. The entire world is worthless without her warmth, tenderness, affection, empathy, caring nature, managerial qualities and a wide spectrum of the social skills. Also, she is the key driving force of human evolution because her choice in form of a male partner eventually contributes to the gene pool.
Her unique characteristics, skills and qualities separate her from men. Beauty, cuteness, resilience, resourcefulness, adaptability and naturality can be easily equated to a woman. The entire world is worthless without her warmth, tenderness, affection, empathy, caring nature, managerial qualities and a wide spectrum of the social skills. Also, she is the key driving force of human evolution because her choice in form of a male partner eventually contributes to the gene pool.
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In comparison to a man, a
woman makes her choices more carefully, consciously and with lots of
patience. If
she's genuinely, voluntarily and seriously interested in a man for a long term, a romantic and a committed relationship, she
tries to collect every possible clue, hint or signal from the man of her interest to judge, examine and access his overall
character, existing and past relationships with other women, current
availability, will of commitment, intellect, occupation, income, confidence, social status, inheritance, personal (and family)
history, possessions, resourcefulness, potentials, strengths and
weaknesses.
Conventionally,
it’s the man who makes first move towards woman as he thinks. It's
totally wrong at most of times. Surprisingly, it’s the woman who takes
initiatives for drawing his attention and bringing him into game of courtship. By default, men are nonverbally dumb and woman has a wider range of nonverbal signals and clues in her arsenal to encourage him to take the first step. Without exceptional circumstance and conditions, she doesn't want to openly and verbally declare that she's attracted towards a man.
There are more than fifty behavioral patterns, moves, clues, displays and signals that have been systematically observed and documented during women's courtship across many cultures, classes, ethnicity and societies.
This is continued from the previous article - Woman's Courtship Body Language (Part 1) Please don't forget to visit same if you haven't.
Following are a few of them, which short and catchy titles, that are very common:

She unconsciously brings sensitive parts facing towards him. She fidgets with ear rings or tops, gently moves fingers through her hair or places palm on chick.
Inside skin of forearms (above elbows and below wrist) is very sensitive and has strong significance for expressing desire.

Also, she deliberately asks him about his family, health condition, fitness routine, current activities, undertakings, social engagements, ambitions, aspirations, adventures and future plans.

When she decides to move ahead, she tilts herself at one side so that exposed neck becomes visible to him. She would laugh quietly and look at him while doing so. It’s one of the solid signals from her.

It’s clear biological indication of her soaring sensations. Chicks are very sensitive part of face and has large network of veins under its skin. Many woman brush their chicks pink as part of their makeup.

She hardly makes a (prolong) eye contact with him. She might cross her arms over her chest for soothing impulse and comforting herself. She blinks her eyes steadily, sings softly or smiles.

She makes hand gestures to show gentleness and flexibility of her wrist. She fidgets or plays with wrist watches, bracelets or bangles.

According to courtship experts, it's the woman who initiates the first touch in 90% of cases. Touch necessarily should not be firm or grabbing but it’s fleeting and brief as if it happened accidentally.

She performs cat walk while passing in front of him or walking towards him. She (subtly) sways and gyrates her hips like a belly dancer while doing the same. She flaunts her curves in front of her.

She jerks her neck so that hair would move backward and forward on her torso, bounce over her shoulders or fly in air. Even if she has very short hair, she does it instinctively.
♀ Insecure Enquirer: If she finds her man walking, talking, moving, eating or working with other (young and beautiful) woman, she would feel insecure due to possibility of loosing her man to the lady and express jealously on her face. She would make a pity face and cross arms over her chest.
She would glare at the woman. She would try to draw his attention towards her by making some noise. When the woman is not with him, she would try to know about his relation with the woman she has saw him with.
She would glare at the woman. She would try to draw his attention towards her by making some noise. When the woman is not with him, she would try to know about his relation with the woman she has saw him with.

Looking over the shoulders at the man of her serious interest is an accurate strike on his already throbbing heart.

She moves back and forth, tries to grab his attention and (openly) asks him to dance or try some moves with her in a party they both are attending. She gyrates her hips while dancing with him.
By the way, if a woman shows a great amount of interest in a man with only physical,
economical, strategic, political and materialistic (short-term) goals and
ambitions in her mind then she would send nonverbal clues to arouse and allure him (sexually)
to walk in her trap. Her nonverbal behavior, expressions, displays and
signals would be purely attention seeking, targeted, inviting, orchestrated, up close, impatient, seductive, imposing, intimate and revealing.
While observing mentioned nonverbal patterns, please ensure that many of them prevail frequently, together or one-after-another during interactions over a considerable period of time. Otherwise, mere attraction or 'fishing' would be mistaken as courtship.
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