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Nowadays, in commercial and competitive world, it seems that we overrate "face value". It's all about the way we (try) to look, influence and attract people around us. We're always after enhancing inherited physical aspects, dress up nicely, groom well and even fake something we don't have originally.

Actually, our plain physical appearance, exterior or look doesn't get expected results most of the time. So what exactly we miss or ignore while communicating or interacting with people? What are the basic "x factors" our mind looks for?

Everyone knows well that we can't judge or evaluate anything or anybody without observing or sensing it face to face or in a reasonable proximity. Our eyes and other sensory organs play a crucial role in collecting information and trying to understand about anything we come across at every moment. 

It's quite prevalent and observable phenomenon even in disabled persons that their other senses compensate their nonfunctional or disordered sensory organ(s). It's the process that runs continuously and our survival entirely depends upon the same. Can we ever imagine a person who is living even after its all senses got disabled?

In subconscious terms, today’s material, techniques, communication channels and concepts are different than that of ancient world but modern human beings haven't much changed a lot. We're very similar to our remote ancestors. Many a times, we realize that we behave, express, react and respond similarly to what we would have done a thousands or millions ago.
 
In this modern, technological and globalized world; we still follow same rules that date back to the millions of years. Acquaintances and relationships also get developed over time by old rules and ways i. e. by judging mutual comfort, discomfort and trustworthiness. More we perceive a person as favorable for us; more we likely to connect ourselves with the person.

"Bridging" a gap between each other by sharing unknowns
It’s almost a dynamic process than a static one and our opinions and thoughts about each others might alter after every exchange. First impression may not last longer because it is mostly derived from the appearance, look or purposefully adapted avatar. The image gradually builds and keeps changing so there’s an opportunity to be hopeful about.

It may not be noticed consciously but we all express emotions, feelings and intentions about every other person we face or stay around. Perhaps, we couldn’t name each and every unspoken exchange taking place between two persons but our subconscious mind figures it out very preciously. It’s very snap judgment that depends upon state of mind, outlook, phobia and complexes we develop over time.

Body shows how we evaluate and connect with others.
Face to face or close interaction gives us unique opportunity to know others and let others know about us. It’s the way we evaluate or judge mutually and it’s at the core of every relationship. Our natural defense mechanism gets into action at fullest the time we get face to face with each other. It becomes very decisive mode of interaction which is full of challenges and opportunities equally.

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