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Face of a liar(?)

Can you tell if somebody is a (habitual) liar but just looking at its face? Or Are you able to detect lie just by picking single clue that person unconsciously gives away e.g. micro-expression of contempt, particular hand gesture or an averted gaze? Despite of classical assumptions, liars don’t have nose like Pinocchio that keeps growing in length as he goes on deceiving others. It’s clear that we can’t (and shouldn’t) blame anybody of having a deceptive nature just by examining its facial features. I think most of us would scratch their heads and simply wish to buy or get a simple chart or reckoner for becoming master in catching liars after reading symptoms described in it.

If you are asked that who could lie or cheat on you then most probably you would point your finger towards the person you don’t like (by its appearance, attitude, orientation or bad experience with the person) or who is not in a good spirit with you. Even if the person isn’t indented to deceive us by any chance, we unconsciously jump to pick it in defending our side - we assume the person as culprit. On the other hand, we simply wonder or don’t believe if somebody close to us has deceived or tricked us. Personal biases and emotionality blindfold us while detecting lie in day to day life.

Although it's very essential for survival and better functioning of brain too, quality of remaining positive and optimistic is self-deception because we ignore factual clues. The reason why we consciously ignore them is they discourage us or make us feel hopeless and we can't explore our potentials to fight back or overcome adverse situations. Behavioral, cognitive and biological deficits and (design) limitations are biggest barriers on the way of way of exploring and getting face to face with truth. We jump or easily get convinced to believe in something because we simply avoid or can't go beyond our boundaries to search facts.

Lying is very common and widespread trait in human and animal world but detecting lies and liars is not easy. It has been scientifically proved and also experienced by most of us that catching a liar in first attempt of detection is only matter of luck - almost 50% or little more than that. Like the guy who saved his career just by picking few recognized nonverbal clues in a perfect cluster, very few of us are enough lucky to detecting lies easily like a wizard. Being naturally intuitive, women are quite better in catching lies and liars as compared to men. That’s why wives can easily and quickly catch their deceiving or misleading husbands. Men too are good in catching lies and if not - they can become so with systematic and precise training.

Lawyers, investigators, security personals, intelligence & counter-intelligence officers, interrogators and law & enforcement officers need to master in detection of lie because it can make a great difference in lives of many people and perhaps their own. However, if they are trained to catch liars and traitors based upon facial and physical features then it could push entire system into a big trouble. Stan Walters (The Lie Guy®) - renowned expert in interrogation and analytical interview techniques shares his deepest concerns about bizarre lie detection classes being run and certification offered to officers. After watching this video (link: www.youtube.com/watch?v=Xl0iNJCMM2I), you would definitely ridicule so-called ‘educators’ of lie detection and brush up yourself away of myths.

No doubt that many researchers and experts have done a great job in creating different models and identifying obvious or subtle symptoms of deception - let it be verbal or nonverbal. They might have got success in catching liars and cheaters by applying special methodologies throughout their career. Sir Joe Navarro - former FBI special agent and renewed nonverbal communication expert strongly educates that there may be a single clue that leads to lie or lairs. Forced confession is the biggest crime itself so you can imagine that how many innocents might have got punished for crime they never committed throughout human history.

Definitely, there are two categories of liars. First is bad liars and second is good or white lairs. Bad lairs are inexperienced in convincing others that what they are telling is truth but they are easily caught due to apparent discrepancy or leakage of unconscious guilt or fear. Just a single or few obvious nonverbal and/or verbal hotspots (significant clues) can easily expose them. On the other hand, white lairs leave subtle clues that remain largely ignored by most of us thus making them master of scams, frauds and forgeries.

Considering the complexity and dynamics of human brain and behavior, detection of lie becomes hard but not impossible. Only strong belief in truth and ability to find/face it gives all of us immunity against laying and lairs. What about telling truth? Perhaps, it’s also hard to tell truth because believing in it is becoming harder and harder in today’s world which has been infested by deception epidemic. After reading many books and articles (including this) on lying and its detection, we find ourselves trapped among liars and cheaters.

What about you? Has liar hidden inside you too? Let me tell you a story which has been written in many religious scripts and passed over generations. A preacher finds that people are pelting stone at an adulteress (promiscuous woman) to punish her for committing moral crime. He allows only those 'good' people to continue punishing her who haven’t committed any crime in their entire lives. Pelting eventually stops because each one of them realize their karma (deeds) in past. This small story sheds bright light on our common psycho-biological trait. Camouflage, scheming or diversion guarantees survival over a certain period like what stripes of zebra or heavy shell of turtle do.

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Only truth is that all of us have lied at one or other point in our lives till date since childhood for different purposes or reasons whatsoever. We can’t blame others for lying but only catch them the way experts, truth wizards and natural lie detectors do. There are many ancient, traditional and modern methods of deception detection but we might need to use many of them together to find truth. Sooner or later truth manifests - lair either confesses misconduct or pays the price for deception. We all know that castles made up of sand don't last longer on seashore and waves swallow them at last.

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3 comments:

  1. It's the pathological liars that are nuts...embellishing is one thing.

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  2. Knowingly lying is different than unknowingly lying. Nonetheless, lies are lies in the eyes of the deceived.

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  3. We are lied to by the majority of Health Professionals, and deceived by the marketing of food products. Even the most honest of us may have lied due to belief in misinformation. Misinformation deceives many to unconsciously lie.

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