Even though we don’t pay much conscious attention, body language definitely speaks louder than words. This phenomenon is exactly like looking at illuminated bulb without being able to touch, taste or smell an electricity. Body language is the dialect of subconscious mind. It’s an in-built survival mechanism which we can’t defy consciously.
How you attire, walk, stand, maintain interpersonal distance, lean, orient, seat, postulate, gesticulate, touch, pronounce words, glance, gaze, and express facially helps building your image in minds of others and same image is reflected through their behavior or treatment to you.
In personal, social or professional life, positive attitude is the most important. Positivity always attracts positivity. Simply, it’s a law of nature. You treat others in positive, respectful and harmonious way; you get same kind of treatment in return. Take an example of smile. When you smile impulsively or intentionally, it makes others smile and helps soothe tense environment.
Positive attitude means to be open, humble, confident, comfortable and favorable towards others; approaching, welcoming, showing interest, respecting, complementing and persuading in an appropriate way without intrusion, intimidation and humiliation. Moreover, positive attitude is not a salesman’s style. It’s not like making smiley face and trying to make everyone happy all the time. Reasonable and constructive defense is also required whenever necessary.
If you closely watch all great, respected and most loved personalities around us who influence our lives and you may find how their positive attitude manifests both verbally and nonverbally.
Adopting and expressing positive attitude is simple but only when you are mentally prepared for same. It’s very crucial to look at yourself exactly the way you want to get treated by others. You need to believe in yourself. Not comparing yourself at all with others, valuing your existence, not underestimating strengths, identifying your virtues - skills - competencies, remaining determined - focused - goal oriented and respecting diversity of personal nature bring emotional stability - harmony and cognitive precision.
More you feel better about yourself; more you become healthy, immune and charming. Don’t curb your ultimate potentials, don’t down your spirit and let it soar higher. Let it be promise to yourself for lifetime. Let each venture make you feel more and more fulfilling with positive attitude towards yourself other.
May your every good wish get fulfilled. Have a great life!